When I was younger, I had always been confused by those romance movies that have no happy endings. For one reason, that was, I couldn't find any convictive enough reason to explain why two people who have strong affection to each other would have to end up nothing. It 's defintely unacceptable to a naive girl like me who had never been in love then. Probably because of the influence from those ideal fairytale we read when we werea kids, we tend to picture love in a perfect way and the handsome prince riding on a white horse must marry the poor little girl who has a rough life, and they will lead a happy wonderful in the castle eversince. Yeah right, that only happends in children's books or movie script, coz a happy ending like that is no where to find in the real world. As I grew older and experienced more of life in all kinds of aspects, I gradually came to realization that we just have to get used to the truth that things can haedly meet your expectation, especially when there are more people get involved. A relationship has no happy ending happends all the time, and for understanding this point, we all have to go through that cruel stage at least once until we compromise with the fact and give the acceptance. Maybe that's the reason why I am more attracted to tragic love stories, maybe it makes love even more beautiful and intense than a happy ending one although it's heartbreaking at the same time.
In a fairytale, there are magics, magics that can conquer all the difficulities and creat miracles, yet in real world without magics' catalysis, we are just powerless mortals who have either fight with the fact or yield the reality. Now I can totally understand why would two people love each other might end up to no where. There are so many factors you need to put into consideration, and timing is one of them which you can hardly keep it under control.
When you have a thing about a guy who feels the same way to you, but his status doesn't allow you to move any further, which means the timing is wrong, this is no different from getting a crappy ending, because you don't get to choice what ending you would get but be moved like a chess. What would you do when you are facing a situation like this ?Can you be rational and drop it right after you realize it might not gonna work, then move on for more possibilities? Or you would just enjoy the moment and take the risk of probably getting hurt in the end ? It's a tough call my friends!
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